Hello there.
Tryes to set up the relay between my 2 bots, which are in different orgs.
Listed topics about relay in 0.4.
Done all steps:
added relay bot in settings
added each bot member of other bot
set user permissions (bots are superadmins).
but relay wont works
Tryed to upgrade to trunk, but it still dont work. Also added each to other's config in sting "other_bots".
here is list of 'settings relay"

Settings for Relay

Autoinvite:  On
  Description: RELAYBOT: Autoinvite bots to the relay group
  Change to: [ On | Off ]

AutoinviteRelayGroup: 
  Description: RELAYBOT: What is the name of the groups that all bots will be in for invites to the relay bot? (Leave empty to invite all bots on the roster)
/tell bandarbot set Relay AutoinviteRelayGroup <new value>

Gcname:  ORG
  Description: What name should we show when we relay from guild chat?
/tell bandarbot set Relay Gcname <new value>

Inc:  Guildchat
  Description: Where should incoming messages relay to
  Change to: [ Both | Guildchat | Privgroup | None ]

Logon:  On
  Description: Should logon spam be relayed to the linked org bots?
  Change to: [ On | Off ]

LogonInPgroup:  On
  Description: Should logons be shown in the private group of the bot too?
  Change to: [ On | Off ]

Org:  Relaybots
  Description: Where should guild chat group relay to
  Change to: [ Both | Privgroup | Relaybots | None ]

OrgLogon:  Off
  Description: Should prefixing the org channel shortcut to the logon information be used when relaying logons?
  Change to: [ On | Off ]

Pgname:  guest?
  Description: What name should we show when we relay from the private group?
/tell bandarbot set Relay Pgname <new value>

Priv:  Both
  Description: Where should private group relay to
  Change to: [ Both | Guildchat | Relaybots | None ]

Relay:  Bot1
  Description: What is the name of the bot that we are using as a relay?
/tell bandarbot set Relay Relay <new value>

Status:  On
  Description: Relay should be
  Change to: [ On | Off ]

StrictNameCheck:  On
  Description: Has the name of the sender of tells with gcr commands to be an exact match with the name of the relay bot?
  Change to: [ On | Off ]

Type:  Pgroup
  Description: How should we relay, via a private group or via tells?  Tells is not the recommended method of handling relays, is slower, and less reliable, and can only be used between two bots.  See the help for gcr for more information.
  Change to: [ Pgroup | Tells ]

Configs are different in "Bot1" and "Bot2" in relay bot.

tryed with tells too...

when relayin via tells, Bot2 log shows that:
[2007-12-09 00:15:11]   [TELL]  [OUT]   -> bot1: gcr [org2] char: gcr Org1 sdfsdf
[2007-12-09 00:15:11]   [PGRP]  [MSG]   [Bot2] Bot2: [org2] char: gcr Org1 sdfsdf
[2007-12-09 00:15:35]   [TELL]  [OUT]   -> bot1: gcr [Org2] char: gcr Org1 sdfsdf
[2007-12-09 00:15:35]   [PGRP]  [MSG]   [Bot2] Bot2: [org2] Char: gcr Org1 sdfsdf
[2007-12-09 00:15:39]   [PGRP]  [MSG]   [Bot2] char: gcr Org1 sdfsdf
[2007-12-09 00:15:39]   [TELL]  [OUT]   -> bot1: gcr [Guest] char: gcr Org1 sdfsdf
[2007-12-09 00:15:50]   [TELL]  [INC]   Bot1: gcr [Guest] Ezhik: df

But no effect in guild channel.
Permissions for gcr command set to G, Manually from mysqladmin

it was after full system restart....

still nothing
Log still shows incoming gcr command, but messages dont shows in guild chat

Remove other bot from each other Bot.conf
if you add them in Bot.conf at otherbots he will ignore all tells from that bot.. This seems to be added in 4.0.

damn bot.conf
it was so close and simple )